By Leon Watson

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The wife of football legend Ruud Gullit has left him for a younger man because she says she's sick of his cheating.

Estelle, 33, revealed the Sky Sports pundit was left 'angry and confused' after she told him she wanted a divorce.

Estelle has fallen in love with Moroccan-born world champion kickboxer Badr Hari, who at 28 is 21 years younger than Ruud.

Split: Former Holland star Ruud Gullit with his bride Estelle Cruyff on their wedding day in Amsterdam. She has now told him she wants a divorce

Split: Former Holland star Ruud Gullit with his bride Estelle Cruyff on their wedding day in Amsterdam. She has now told him she wants a divorce

In an interview with Dutch paper De Telegraaf, she blamed her husband's infidelity for the end of their 12-year marriage.

Estelle, who is niece of Dutch legend Johan Cruyff, said: 'There is one thing Ruud needs to know. Badr has not stolen me from Ruud... Ruud gave me away.'

'Ruud is angry and confused,' she revealed. 'He can’t believe what is happening. He was really angry when I told him I was leaving him.

'I wanted us both to tell the children. We have a daughter Joelle and a son Maxim together. But I did not get the chance to discuss that.

'Ruud is so annoyed. He really did not see this coming. But that is what happens when you are so busy with your own things.'

Ruud played for AC Milan, Sampdoria, Chelsea and Holland in a glittering career before going on to manage Chelsea and Newcastle United.

Ruud Gullit, when he was manager of Chelsea, and his then-girlfriend, Estelle Cruyff at Fulham Town Hall in London, celebrating the club's 1997 FA Cup win over Middlesborough

Ruud Gullit, when he was manager of Chelsea, and his then-girlfriend, Estelle Cruyff at Fulham Town Hall in London, celebrating the club's 1997 FA Cup win over Middlesborough

Glamorous: Estelle Cruyff became the third Mrs Ruud Gullit when the couple married in Amsterdam. Ruud astounded guests by arriving with his trademark dreadlocks shorn off

Glamorous: Estelle Cruyff became the third Mrs Ruud Gullit when the couple married in Amsterdam. Ruud astounded guests by arriving with his trademark dreadlocks shorn off

Unfaithful: The couple attend the Golden Foot Ceremony Awards in Monaco in October last year

Unfaithful: The couple attend the Golden Foot Ceremony Awards in Monaco in October last year

Estelle said she has fallen in love with Moroccan-born world heavyweight kickboxing champion Badr Hari (pictured right), who is 21 years younger than her husband

Estelle said she has fallen in love with Moroccan-born world heavyweight kickboxing champion Badr Hari (pictured right), who is 21 years younger than her husband

His wife said: 'Of course Ruud had affairs. He always did during our marriage. And of course I knew about them. And of course he would deny them all the time. My trust in him decreased over the years. In the end I didn’t trust him one bit.

'That was the moment I started to ask myself, what is this whole marriage actually based on?

'I put on a brave smile for a long time when I was with friends. It was a smile to hide my disappointment and hurt. As a woman you feel so much more than a man. I just knew his things weren’t incidents, but pure lust. The first time I confronted him with one of his affairs, we weren’t even married.'

Talented footballer: Ruud Gullit is tackled by Tottenham's Allan Nielsen in a match at Stamford Bridge in 1996

Talented footballer: Ruud Gullit is tackled by Tottenham's Allan Nielsen in a match at Stamford Bridge in 1996

Ruud, with Dennis Wise and Gianfranco Zola after winning the FA Cup in 1997

Ruud, with Dennis Wise and Gianfranco Zola after winning the FA Cup in 1997

Ruud announced his resignation as Newcastle United manager in August 1999, he blamed the media and a disastrous start to the Premiership season

Ruud announced his resignation as Newcastle United manager in August 1999, he blamed the media and a disastrous start to the Premiership season

Estelle met Ruud at a nightclub while she was aged 17 and still at school. The couple married four years later and have two children together.

She gave birth to their two-year-old daughter, Joelle, when she was 19 and the family lived in a flat on the outskirts of Amsterdam.

'Ruud does not realise that he has hurt me so much over the years,' she said. 'I wonder now if he was aware of how much pain he caused me.

'I wanted that pain to end,' she told De Telegraaf. 'I hope he finds somebody who can make him happy. It has become clear over the years that I could not make him happy. Well, not just me on my own.

'Ruud knows I know everything. He really is not a bad man, but he has one particularly bad habit.

'I was looking forward to a lovely, romantic life with Ruud. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him. He was sweet, happy. I could not wait to start a family with him. I don’t want to forget the great moments, which we did have, otherwise this would not have lasted 16 years.'

Estelle said Ruud is 'an adorable father' which 'as a woman, that makes you melt at times'.

But she said being a good father is not enough. The former European Footballer of the Year was married twice before and has four children with his ex-wives.

Ruud told Dutch media this week that he was getting divorced, 'because of recent developments in his marriage'.

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She is well rid he is UGLY

Good for her.

She doesn't seem bitter - just sad. I know that position all too well. I split from my partner because of infidelity as well. He is a wonderful father, he was just a very bad husband. I hope this lady and Ruud work things out with civility and no animosity. Certainly the most painful thing that can happen in a relationship is one partner taking the other for granted.

Good for her, life's too short to stick with someone who treats you like a piece of rubbish. Cheating is cheating, how could he be surprised?!

'I was looking forward to a lovely, romantic life with Ruud" Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2160531/Ruud-Gullits-wife-leaves-younger-man-getting-sick-cheating.html#ixzz1y3fjqIHk How so, when she admits she knew he had affairs before she married him? I expect she married him DESPITE his alleged womanising. She looks like a typical WAG. I'm she was well provided for. It's the chance you take for marrying such a man.

Well, Ruud, you most certainly have reaped what you have sown, haven't you? Good on you, Estelle, I wish you all the luck and happiness in the world - you were always too good for Ruud.

Good for her. It does not surprise me that he did not see this coming. Of course, I feel for the children - they suffer the most.

Selfish man. Wants to cheat but cannot get his head round why she will not have tea ready when she gets in. As if she was supposed to stick around for all eternity after being used like that. Good for her.

Badr Hari is a monster............the Golden Boy is the most brutal, most aggressive fighter you'll ever see. Amazing to watch.

'The first time I confronted him with one of his affairs, we werent even married.' Enlighten us then love, why did you marry him knowing he was being unfaithful?! I think you're well shot of her Ruud.

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