• Tayler Gunn now refuses to eat cheese, ham and spaghetti
  • He has since grown two inches in height but lost one pound in weight

By Daniel Miller

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Healthy: But six-year-old Tayler Gunn has been left terrified of putting on weight after his school sent him a letter saying he was close to being clinically obese

Healthy: But six-year-old Tayler Gunn has been left terrified of putting on weight after his school sent him a letter saying he was close to being clinically obese

A six-year-old boy has been left terrified of putting on weight because his school nurse told him he was too fat.

Tayler Gunn refuses to eat cheese, ham and spaghetti after being sent a letter from his school, Millhouse Infants in Laindon, Essex saying he was close to being clinically obese.

When he was sent the letter, Tayler weighed three stone 5lbs and was 3ft 6ins tall. Since then he has grown two inches but has actually lost one pound in weight.

His mother Leanne Kane, 25, of Devonshire Gardens, Laindon, Essex, says: 'It is something he worries about. It's ridiculous, I just keep telling him he's strong, he's not fat, he's strong.

'It definitely affected him, and he is really worried about his weight.

'I was so angry because I was given a letter basically saying that I'm not looking after him properly, but I do. He thinks he is too fat and he's six. It's just awful.'

To try to help youngsters worried about their weight, MPs have made recommendations that all school children receive compulsory body image and self-esteem classes.

It follows a report by the All Party Parliamentary Group on body image, which said more than half of the public has a negative body image and girls as young as five now worry about how they look.

The parliamentary group report also said cosmetic surgery rates have increased by nearly 20 per cent since 2008 and blames media images of super skinny celebrities.

As part of the same recommendation there was a call for a review into the Equality Act, suggesting it be amended to include appearance-related discrimination.

Another recommendation was a review into whether the Equality Act 2010 should be amended to include appearance-related discrimination, which would be classed the same as race and sexual discrimination.

Leanne, welcomed anything that could be done to help children, but says government involvement was one of the reasons Tayler was so self conscious about his weight.

Lisa-Marie Jobson, principal of the San-Marie Stage School, both in Billericay, Essex believes classes to help children with self-esteem and body image issues would be a positive step.

She said: 'I see things from two sides - I think in some ways it is important that children are aware of their bodies for health and medical reasons. Children should be aware of the importance of exercise and not getting over-weight.

'But I also think the Government could do more in teaching children that everyone is different. We all have different body shapes and we are all good at many different things. These realities should be appreciated.

'I would say that the ad agencies for TV commercials have made big changes since I first came into the industry. The casting briefs we get these days are often looking for 'real children' - they want children of all shapes and sizes, from all races. It didn't used to be like that.

Anger: Tayler's mother Leanne Gunn with the letter sent by the school nurse. When it arrived, Tayler weighed three stone 5lbs and was 3ft 6ins tall. Since then he has grown two inches but has actually lost one pound in weight

Anger: Tayler's mother Leanne Gunn with the letter sent by the school nurse. When it arrived, Tayler weighed three stone 5lbs and was 3ft 6ins tall. Since then he has grown two inches but has actually lost one pound in weight

'As for the mags and brochures, they are specifically looking for perfect children. I don't think this is such a good thing as it puts a hell of a strain on young children.

'I find a lot of children are very self aware of their bodies and the children who come to us for dance classes are particularly aware. Many come for fun and exercise which is great - they are aware of body health. '

Clinical psychologist Zach de Beer said: 'Body image is a major issue and can lead onto other problems; commercial and cultural pressures are real.

'Any kind of bullying or verbal abuse, for whatever reason, is not acceptable and can have a catastrophic effect on some vulnerable young people.'

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a. do not give permission to have these BMI checks, they're inaccurate. b. if you get one of these letters do not share it with your child, it's up to you to protect them

The school nurse is going by what the government have set out to be a healthy BMI. There are too many stoires of this creeping into the headlines and perhaps the Government need to re-think what is healthy and what is obese. To me the boy looks fine as he is...

If you know your child is healthy has an healthy diet and exercise and looks healthy and not overweight why worry about the letter just ignore it and never share the contents of the letter with your child that's just worrying your child for nothing.

That letter is not addressed to or sent to the child. It is a standard letter to the parent(s). If the child had read it aged 6, I doubt they understood the wording or implications. Much more likely the mother took umbridge and then discussed the content with her son, who concluded that his weight had made his mother so upset and thus decided to stop eating certain foods in the hope his mother would be proud of him. The mother IS at fault here. It's how she handles situations in front of her child that gives him the cues how to respond or behave. If she didn't agree with the information in the letter then she should have done what most parents do, and binned it, there was no need to involve the child when he wasn't mature enough to appreciate the letter's advice. Mothers who are too hot headed and quick temepered at the slightest affront are the ones who need parenting classes. Their behaviour is what their children will pick up on.

Like Helen, Essex my first thought was, well why did the parents tell their little boy what was said in the letter.

BMI charts should NEVER be used to determine a child's health at that age. Children grow fast and change body weights all of the time. A child that would be obese on a BMI chart today may be perfectly healthy in 2 weeks on the same BMI chart due to growth.

My own daughter is currently going through this. Over the past 2 months she packed on 15lbs more than normal. Then, in the past 2 weeks she started growing, FAST. She's grown over half an inch in the past 10 days alone. 2 weeks ago she would have been called obese, and 2 weeks from now she will probably be borderline underweight as all of that extra weight is converted to vertical growth.

Parents caused all of this not the school or the government - the parents are 100% to blame for what ever consequence came of their actions.

I am sick of these so called health professionals dictating that we should weigh the same as a skeleton, don't drink, don't smoke etc etc It has been proven that the BMI is flawed. Just leave us and our children alone!!!!!!!!!!!

Again? Seriously DM why give these parents the time of day??? The children are NOT told they are obese, the letter tells their parents what their BMI is. 1 iota of common sense would tell any parent with half a brain cell that if their child is healthy and active no action is necessary. You certainly don't risk telling them!

Another news story about schools, I don't understand how he can be classed anywhere near Clinically Obese. He looks healthy enough to me. Though yes, what Helen said.. Why did the parent show the letter to the kid? It's turned to more being her fault that her son is terrified of putting on weight.. :S Poor kid.

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